Attracting the right Opportunities
The other day I got an e-mail from a newbie telling me about something wonderful that had just happened him - something that most people would say was either coincidental or pure luck.But we both knew that wasn't the case.The newbie had been looking for a new, better paying job and - he had been working with the lessons for the past few weeks to help him accomplish this goal.One day while at a mall he decided to go into a bookstore where he met an old friend - a wealthy old friend who had his own company.To cut a long story short – the newbie was offered a job on the spot - which was close to what he had been looking for.Coincidence?I don't think so.The newbie had been training his mind and subconscious mind on a daily basis - directing them to guide him to the right job. He followed up with action, and continued doing everything he could to get the right job.Finally his subconscious responded and he listened to his instincts by going into the bookstore. When he saw his wealthy friend he didn't turn away, he didn't ignore him – he treated him like a friend and shared what he was going through. These simple acts - landed him a job that he had been looking for - but only after he had laid the foundation by instructing his subconscious mind to guide him to the right job. You too can create the situations you want to catapult you to success. When you feed your mind and subconscious mind the positive messages to get what you want - your subconscious then goes out and creates the situations, and attracts the people to help you accomplish your goals. But you have to follow up. You have to see every situation that comes up as an opportunity. Not all will lead you to what you want - but you will be guided along the way and if you focus on making the right decisions - you will. But you have to follow up - by following your instincts and taking action. Then you create the right situations and opportunities to help you accomplish your goals. All you have to do is direct your subconscious mind to help you achieve what you want by following the simple steps
Coincidence? Not A chanceYou ever wonder about those little coincidences that take place during your day? You know the kind where you just sort of scratch your head and say: "that was a weird coincidence - I was thinking about something similar and then this happens - how strange." Well, it's not that strange and it isn't just a simple a coincidence.Everyday we experience what we believe are coincidences - that can sometimes shape or alter our lives dramatically. You can direct these so called coincidences and in so doing - these apparent coincidencescan help you dramatically improve your life and achieve your goals. But if you don't actively create your own "coincidences" you could end up creating the wrong events - and the wrong coincidences - which is what most people do. And by having the wrong coincidences you end up attracting the wrong people and fail to live the life you truly want. What do I mean? Suppose you could actually create little coincidences that would help you improve your life, achieve your goals and allow you to enjoy success and happiness?You can!Focus on what you want; ignore what you do not want. It’s that simple. It’s that easy. Is it Really a Coincidence?What happened to the newbie was not a mere coincidence. Those of you who are working with the lessons know that I don't believe in coincidence. Here's a personal example. A few months ago I was going through a pretty rough patch on the road of life. Everyday I was getting more and more disagreeable. People who know me were telling me over and over again that I had really changed.

I knew I wanted to be more positive, to see things different but I couldn’t decide how I could or what I could to do about it. I thought my options were either to move out of Oklahoma (and that wasn’t an option) or something more drastic.

So I changed my focus of attention.

During training for my new job I had to sit with people and listen to them take calls. Thomas the person I would normally sit with was gone. From his desk I could see a really attractive woman who I had always wanted to talk to. So I walked up to her and asked if I could listen to her take calls.

She said she had never had anyone sit with her when she took calls. She could have told me no, but she said yes. And my life will never bee the same. She gave me new eyes to see the world with. She does not act the way she does because it’s her job. She acts the way she does because she is a great person. I want to be a great person. And now I have a mentor.
Now you may think it was coincidence but that's not the way I see it.These kind of orchestrated so called coincidences have happened to me my whole life - and keep happening to me everyday.I've been able to create the right situation at the right time including getting jobs, scholarship money and finding a place to live by orchestrating my own coincidences or by working in harmony with the universe and creating the right situations. How YOU Can Create The Right Opportunities First let me clearly state that there is no such thing as coincidence. Instead you orchestrateeverything that happens to you - even what you think are coincidences are created by you on some level.You create these so called coincidences or opportunities by working with the power of your mind and subconscious mind - which works in harmony with the universe.You can create good or bad things in your life - it's really your choice.The negative things that happen because you did not properly instruct your subconscious mindto create the kind of so called coincidences to help you. Or you refused to obey the warning signs that come up everyday. These signs try to help you by trying to push you on to a certain path - when you fail to follow these signs, things don't work out and you end up creating exactly what you don't want. Nothing happens by chance. You orchestrate every coincidence that happens in your life. The more you begin to think about this the sooner you'll realize that what I am saying is true.Here's how you orchestrate your own apparent coincidences, situations and opportunities – including those that work for you or against you. When you are focused on something, when you think about it regularly, when it is a priority in your life then you will begin to notice little coincidences pop up.When you are calm, relaxed and trust that you will find or get what you are looking for then thecoincidences become more apparent. When your mind is quiet and not filled with negative thoughts and doubts then you will see these coincidences happen sooner.This happens no matter what you regularly think about or focus on. So if you constantly worry,live in fear, or your frequently angry, frustrated or just plain negative then you will create coincidences that reflect what you think about regularly. You will likely attract the peoplewho will support what you worry about. You will also likely create events that make you believethat you need to worry or be angry about something. The classic example is someone who is looking for a job but can't get one. You might say that myfocus is on getting a job and that's great.But what thoughts and beliefs do you hold that sabotage yourself? What thoughts and beliefs doyou hold that create the negative coincidences that you want to avoid?Do you trust and truly believe that you will get a job?Or are you filled with fear, worry, anxiety and despair?Is there a sense of panic or is your mind calm knowing and believing that you will getthe right job at the right time? Remember all of the elements have to be in place in order for youto create the positive coincidence you want to happen in order for you to get you that job or whatever it is you would like to see happen in your life.Negative situations can arise when you focus on the wrong thing, or when you let your ego selfdominate. When you let your ego dominate or when you focus on the wrong things, you then end up with a negative situation or what you don't want. If you don't believe me, then let's do a little exercise.You are where you are today because of a number of coincidences that took place in your life -- they all led you to where you are today. This could be good or bad -- but my point is that if one of those coincidences had not taken place at a certain time in your life - you would be in a different situation. Think about it for a moment and here's what you can do to better understandwhat I am talking about. Think about an important area of your life - it can be finances, love,home, career, family, travel anything - any significant area of your life.Now examine where you are today in relation to that area. Then go back a year or 5 years - look at where you were then. Now slowly start to workyour way forward and try to examine the decisions you made in that area as they came up. Notice any coincidences? If you had made one decision differently - would things have changed? If yes - then do you think that it's just a coincidence that you made the choice you made? I didn’t think so.You focused on something, good or bad, positive or negative, the opportunity came - in the form of a coincidence - and here you are today as a result of what you orchestrated some time ago. On some level - your thoughts worked in harmony with the universe - or you refused to adhere to the warning signs - or you focused on the wrong thing.Stop creating the things you don't want in life and start creating the coincidences that will leadyou to the life you want and enjoy. Creating Your Own Coincidences and OpportunitiesTo create your own coincidences, opportunities or fortunate events focus on what you want. Think about what you want to happen. Then begin telling yourself that everything is working out fine and you have just what you want and need.Then trust and let go. This may not seem easy - but trusting and letting go is actually the most important part. So the sooner you get comfortable with the process - the sooner you'll get results. Be patient - and be alert. Watch for little things that come up - remember there is no such thing as coincidence. When you notice what looks like a coincidence - make a note of it and remember - the processis already at work and soon - the right coincidence will arrive to help you achieve your goal. Remember - you will be guided to what is best for you -- all you have to do is follow the signs along the road. Read them, pay attention to what appear to be coincidences. You can begin creating the life you want.
You can attract the people that will help you.
You can achieve your goals and be happy.
Start creating your positive coincidences today
You can begin improving your life. Yes you can create the coincidences to achieve success, happiness and much more. Take control of your thoughts and you change your life. Start today - don't waste another moment creating the life you don't want. Remember - this is it. This is the only life you have. Use your incredible powers to make the most of it

Remember if you don't do anything - if you don't change the way your mind works and direct your subconscious mind to create the life you want everything stays the same - nothing changes.This is your life - make the most of it - begin working with the power of your mind and subconscious mind to create the life you want.

I bid you peace,

Sleep well, Dream safe
Uyetsga Adaya
Wade